Divorce and your mortgage

What happens to our mortgage and our home?

Divorce and your mortgage as an expat

A divorce is a major life event. Emotions run high and there is a lot to arrange. One of the biggest questions is often: What happens to our mortgage and our home?

 

You are not alone. With clear explanations and sound advice, you regain clarity and peace of mind. On this page, you can read what usually happens and which choices you have.

What does a joint mortgage mean?

If you took out a mortgage together, you are both responsible for the loan. This remains the case even if one of you leaves the home.

The bank does not look at who lives in the property, but at who is named on the mortgage. As long as the mortgage has not been adjusted, you both remain liable.

Who has to continue paying the mortgage?

In most cases, the following applies:

  • You both remain jointly responsible
  • Even if one partner moves out
  • Any payment arrears affect you both

It is therefore important to make clear agreements. Sometimes it helps to use a temporary joint account for the mortgage payments, so that payments continue to be made on time.

What are the options for the home?

In the event of a divorce, there are usually three options.

  • Selling the house

    This often provides clarity and a fresh start. And is often the simplest solution.

  • One of you stays in the house

    If one partner wants to continue living in the house, then the following must apply:

    • the mortgage must be in one name

    • the other must be bought out

    • the bank must agree

    This almost always means refinancing or remortgaging.

  • Remaining joint owners

    This is possible, but requires:

    • clear agreements

    • good communication

    • defined responsibilities

    This is usually a temporary solution.

What if you want to take over the mortgage?

  • De hypotheek herfinancieren

    Als jij in het huis wilt blijven, moet je de hypotheek alleen kunnen dragen. De bank kijkt dan naar:

    • jouw inkomen

    • je vaste lasten

    • je kredietpositie

    Pas na goedkeuring kan de hypotheek op jouw naam worden gezet.

  • Equity and buying out

    If the house is worth more than the mortgage, then there is equity.
    You will often need to buy out your ex-partner. This can be done:

    • using your own funds

    • by increasing the mortgage

    A valuation determines the current value of the property.

  • Other options

    In some situations, other options may also be possible. This depends on your income, the property, and your future plans.

    We explain everything calmly and clearly, so you can make a choice you fully stand behind.

Suitable for every expat situation

Would you like to know what your options are?

Every situation is different. In a personal consultation, we will take a calm look at your situation and explain everything step by step.